1. Voice recorder in her car. 16 years of marriage down the drain. The ones that got hurt the most were our children.
2. Our child asked who he was sending heart emojis to, when we were sitting at the table
3. I called him on a video call and he forgot to hang up and walked back to his table with his whatever. I watched them sit and have a flirty conversation and joke about me before he realized that I was there listening to every word. I never saw him again until Divorce Court.
4. Not the craziest but the stupidest way he could do it was linking his phone to his tablet and saw all the messages between him and my replacement
5. He went out after work on a Thursday night for his Birthday and for the first time in 27yrs he did not make it home. He wasent with his friends because he walked in early mrng ready to take a shower and leave to work, I know and smelled the odor and that’s when I told him ” the same way you walked in you can walk out” first and last time..he lived the rest of his life with regret 🙁 May he forever RIP 🙏
6. Woman messaged me on fb and said I was with her boyfriend. I had no idea he was in a relationship! He played it out like she was his crazy ex. So I met her for a drink and that was that!!
7. When he accidentally showed his wedding ring on his finger during a video call the night he was flying back home to me…then when he came back I acted like nothing had happened when he told me I had imagined the ring. When he went back abroad 6 months later, I was already in the process of sorting things out and once he was gone and out the country I moved his stuff into storage and changed the locks. Then i told him 2 days before he came back home, we are done!
8. Drove round the block where we lived 16 times until she was dropped off by her boss when she said she was out with friends his wife and family found out 20 minutes later when I turned up on his doorstep karma is a dish best served cold lol 😂!!!!!
9. I was going to the gym and on my way I decided that I didn’t want to go so I went back to his house 😅 when I was parking in front of his house he was parking as well with another woman 😄 ahahah too many years ago. We are friend now. Imagine
10. Found out from my kids. The kids in the apartment complex were all playing together and said that he was with the neighbor girl. They came up and told me. I threw out all of his stuff off the second story and told him to leave!
11. Passed out on the edge of the bed with her number pulled up on his phone memorized the number went in the bathroom gave her a call.
12. When I found panties on the side of our bed, half way under the bed, after coming home from being gone on a business trip for a few weeks..
13. The women’s husband contacted me.
14. Saved reels. I know it’s not even about me.
15. He sent me a black screen recording on snap of one of our songs after saying he was going fishing with his mom. They don’t fish AND he was too in love with himself to not show himself on camera 😂 I called that and he was in fact cheating 🥴
16. He moved out after 7 years of living with me and my 3 small boys . He said he couldn’t be with me anymore because I deserved better. Meanwhile, he had started a registry at Target and other places for his future wife’s baby shower. His cousin called and told me they got the random invitation. Once a cheater, always a cheater. So thankful I couldn’t have more children. At the time, we were researching reversing my tubaligation.
17. Oh sitting at my parents kitchen table with a forever friend playing cards pouring my heart out about my worries and concerns for this very broken & damaged guy I’d been involved with & going through potential options of ways I could potentially attempt to help improve his trauma scaved life circumstances at that current time … When she said ” u know sumtimes it’s those u trust the very most that u least suspect or expect to ever intentionally hurt u that maybe dont deserve or return your solidilty, respect or same loyalty of a genuine friend ship
18. I was messaging the chick he created on me with from his phone. I sore the emails she sent him… hacked her account and found all the messages between them.
19. One day I was on my way inside Bath and Body works and as I open the door, he comes out laughing and joking around with her, grinning from ear to ear,, Looks up at me and ran like lightning ⚡😂😂, I couldn’t find him to save my life
20. When my son got older he told me how she has been cheating since he was 2 hes 6
21. My mom told me .. cause my friends went too her because I had a newborn and they didn’t know how to tell me
22. He was on a family trip in Hawaii ….I called his phone no answer so I checked his voicemails….welp that’s what I get for being nosey all I heard were voicemails from a female he met out there…or went with who knows….. 🤔
23. When I was doing the dishes and there was a random winnie the pooh coffee mug that I knew was not mine nor my man’s because I know everything we had so I waited for him to fall asleep and I checked his phone bam he was cheating on me with his ex before me. Check your dishes ladies, check your dishes 🤷🏻♀️
24. When I took a half day and came home for a hell of a surprise.. But I’m good. That was 12 yrs ago. Been with my husband 11 now and happy!
25. My son told me that his bio mom is seeing somebody else AFTER his mom told him not to tell me. Proud of my son doing the right thing. I did a great job with my son, obviously.
26. He did it and asked me if I wanted to see the video (him with his ex) at the end of our relationship, when we were doing stuff he actually put on the video and smiled as if I was supposed to be ok with it….I said nope and went for a walk….
27. Just saw all the chats between he and his numerous girlfriend a few weeks ago and he’s acting like he was the one who was offended 😭 Thank God we are not married 😔
28. They sent a text to me instead of the person it was meant to go to and I was driving in the car that we were in together….
29. Hanging out with friends ,when everyone left I helped him lay down cause he was hammered and his phonen lit up with her name .He hopped up and left .I suspected long before that . The next day he came home and I was waiting for my ride with my teen soon and our bags .
30. The husband came to our house to tell me his wife was sleeping with my bf. We were friends before it all happened, they’re now married but the grass isn’t greener lol, they’re still mad at me though for what THEY did lol 😆 😅 😂 🤣
31. He said he was with his brother watching football. He wouldn’t answer his phone, so I called his brother. His brother was in bed asleep. That was the best thing that ever happened to me! I met an incredible man who has morals, integrity, kind, and caring. We have been happily married for 20 years♥️
32. Finding a girl’s underwear in a couch that I helped him move into his place. Like bro they were not already in there bc I carried that thing in there with you bro. Bye 👋 enjoy the undies.
33. His girlfriend text me and told me all the business and he didn’t deny it. Plus he brought her around his family and his mother complained about her and the oldest sister said “You didn’t want him with his wife so this is what you get” enough said. That’s why we are divorced
34. His mom told me and then I caught him with his ex. Then found out he kept his options open and he was casually dating on the side. It was over 4 good !
35. He gave me his Facebook password. He was a trucker and he wanted me to have it in case something happened to him so I could let his family and friends know. I’d been feeling distance growing between us for a few years by then. I don’t know why he didn’t erase all the incriminating evidence though.
36. Had to go to appstore to redownload the app telegram he deleted everytime when he was with me, and on there he was cheating .. 😂
37. When his mother bought him a framed picture of his brothers daughter for xmas all turned out she wasn’t his brother’s it was my fiancé’s. He’d been having a affair with his brothers wife!!!
38. His side bit called me from his phone at all hours of the night saying she couldn’t get out of his house
39. He gave me his old phone as mine crapped out and he got a new one.. he didn’t delete anything. So, there were no names but there were messages of him inviting women over to our apartment during the 6 days I was staying in the NICU with our newborn daughter.
40. He’s in the navy and he said he was going out to sea.. the day he “left” chipotle emailed me a receipt. There were two items he ordered, one for him and the other was my best friend’s (at the time)… turns out they had been doing the deed the whole time and he was staying at her house (she’s also married) 😂
41. Looked at a screenshot, had her partial email in the url in the ss. Just had a bad feeling about this one so I Found her full email, looked at all accounts it was connected to, logged into her accounts remotely (she used his name and the year they started dating for the Facebook password 😂🤪) read the whole conversation and then installed a key logger on his computer without telling him so I could leave it open.
42. When he was in hospital and met his son who I thought wasn’t coping with his parents divorce which was why I hadn’t met him…then the wife turned up 😕🥹
43. Husband of woman he slept with calls at midnight and informs me that my husband is their child’s father!
44. Secretive on phone so I unlocked it whilst he was sleeping, I had to sneakily pretend I was asleep to see his code to find his conversation even dirty pictures. Also my son over heard him on the phone when he thought we was all asleep. He even called my son a liar.
45. 6 months pregnant he finally just came forward. I had my suspensions already. Just thought I was over thinking things. Will be married for 15 years soon but I will never forget. Still broken not sure what the future holds.
46. She showed up with with her date to the pool hall we met at
47. My guy had been out on a job out of town. When he got back I went over to his place to stay the night. He had to get up early the next morning for work so I got up w him. As he’s getting dressed he pulls something out of his bag he used to go off on a job. Out flutters a strip of paper, just so perfectly. As I go to get it he says to just leave it. I pick it up and it’s the top part off a condom wrapper!!
48. The woman he was chasing sent me copies of all his texts. Never knew he could be so romantic, charming, and caring.
49.
1. Phone bill. (I made a copy and gave it to the other woman’s husband)
2. Girlfriend left mail in his car (I went to her house and told her husband)
3. Coworker said he was seeing her sister
4. Left his phone in his car, and I looked through it. (I took pictures of screen shots with my phone, divorced him)
5. 3 other girlfriends called me collectively and we met in front of his house. He was seeing 5 of us altogether
6. His best friend called and told me after he found out he was sleeping with his girlfriend. ( they remained friends)
7. Lipstick on the bathroom hand towel. ( he tried to say it was mine) (I know better than to wipe my mouth on something people wipe their hands on)
8. Found a women’s watch in my couch cushion while I was cleaning. (Kept it and pawned it)
9. Caught him eating dinner with his ex girlfriend when he was supposed to be at work. (I threw the entire meal at them)
10. Girlfriend knocked/kicked the front door while he was in the shower. (I sat back like Celie to see what was going to happen next)
11. Supposed “best” friend went ghost so I went to her house and waited with her mom and grandma while they watched her baby. She got out of HIS car upon her return. (End of a childhood friendship)
12. Walked in to find him on top of my cousin. (she did it for money, ended my relationship with them both)Granted, these are different men over a span of 35 years.
50.Came home from my parents’ house to a super clean home and he asked me to come to the balcony so we can talk. I was three months pregnant at the time.
51. Oh this is a fun one. My ex worked as a teaching assistant and all of a sudden started telling me he was working as a residential aid(not sure if this is the case everywhere, but RA requires additional training he didn’t have and he had to know I knew this because that was literally what I was doing for work at the time). I knew he was lying but I let him dig his own hole. One day it snowed and school was cancelled, so he called to tell me he was home. I said “oh, they didn’t need you at any of the houses? Everyone was able to make it there in the snow?” And he said “I’m a TA, babe… not an RA. I can’t work in the houses.” I DIED laughing and hung up on him. It gets better! Turns out he was having some fun with an RA … while she was on the clock.
52. We were together for Xmas night for the first time, I ask for her phone and go straight to the blocked list numbers and remove all the contacts there, text them and all things pop up, I almost die that night, it was 7 years ago, 7 years later I got the LOML. Life is good.
53. Went to pick up a last minute Christmas gift after a graveyard shift dispatching to see my cousin who works there and asks me if I knew he was going to be a daddy again. Mind u I just had my Daughter 2 months prior. I was in shock and I had to go home and act like nothing because it was Christmas and didn’t want to ruin it for my kids. That hurt a lot.
54. I usually the one who opens our mails and one day i opened his CC bank statement and found multiple OF transactions.( I didn’t know i was pregnant) at that time.
55. My wife bought a house and got a boyfriend without my knowledge and then offered it all up so we could be polyamorous. Completely for my benefit because she said I thought she was “too much for one person” 🤣🙃. It was purely for me 🤍.
56. My iPad,, best to not link all your electronics if you plan on cheating on your spouse ,, completely blindsided , it’s coming up on 10 years and it sucks , completely destroyed my life,,,, We had a family run business that did very well , worked side by side …
57. When their friend calls me and tells me they cheated. Than I go to confront my ex partner about it and he tries to lie and say he didn’t do it…
58. When I saw his wedding pictures on FB. He was leading a completely double life for the 3 years we were together. I’m still processing how stupid I was to let a sociopathic narcissist get into my head.
59. Naked pics of some other girl on his phone. She texted when he went to the bathroom and I just jumped in bed and looked at it.. Trust was Lost along with the Love 😭 Live & Learn
60. Went to a few hotels and boom there was her car. Came back later that morning before she had to be at work and caught her and her boss leaving.
61. My husband didn’t know i was sleeping in my room & I caught him .
62. too many to mention, different chat and gaming apps, browsers, his phone ( i saw their pics inside a motel, and at a mall in big city ) he heart reacts to posts of his so called “ex” then i found out he was still chasing her but wouldn’t wnt to break up with me.
63. When she called his phone and I answered it.
64. Christmas Eve was when I learned my ex had been unfaithful – his side chick’s husband had shown up, gun in hand, and it’s a traumatic memory that’s stuck with me.
65. She got pregnant….we r both girls… oh or when i tried dating the last dude i dated he got married while we were together his aunt told ms
66. I’ve accidentally read a text message from his guy friend named Angelo. It was so strange coz that message was so sweet. The next day, I pretended that I had to send my mom a message, but I ran out of battery. So I used his phone and copied the number that felt off for me. When I got home, I sent that number a message pretending I was my stupd ex. Found out that this “Angelo” was actually “Angela”!😒😂
67. He passed out with his phone open to side chic video chatting
68. With my youngest sons dad it was the weird deleted texts and how she was apparently feeling lonely without any context lol, my other ex , my most recent ex was on fansly to perve at other women while high on meth (I learnt this later) and she contacted me on Facebook. Sent me screenshots which he told me was fabricated lol. Yeah right lol
69. I noticed her car was parked down the street in the Apartments I just moved into. Good part was I got to repossess the Car from her as she was not making payments.
70. She got drunk and was texting me thinking she was texting him. Yes, he and I had the same name.
71. Our phones were connected
72. During the delivery when the baby appeared it had a VERY DARK tan . 6 years down the drain ,
73. Finding matching panties and underwear in the mailbox, he bought for he and the affair partner.
74. I worked days and he worked nights. Little car toys showed up on our deck but the weirdest thing was our orange juice. He never drank any because he hated it. I would have just one small glass of it in the morning. I noticed one day that the juice was not gone but almost! Then I woke up in the middle of the night to find him gone and every light on in the house. He soon returned and said he ran to the gas station because he had run out of cigarettes. There were 2 full packs on the coffee table. So the next day, I left work in the middle of the day. Sure enough, there she was sitting on the couch with my husband, she’s the clerk at the gas station and has a little boy. He was half dressed and his wedding ring in the candy dish. I kicked her out first and then I kicked him out.
75. Our two girls and I made him a lunch picnic and brought it to his job to have lunch with him. His work told us he had taken off that day on a vacation day
76. 8 months pregnant. Asked him to pick me up from work because there was a snowstorm and it was cold. He said he wasn’t around. Took the train home. When I reached the corner of my house, his truck was sitting at the gas station. His other woman was sitting in the front seat. Also pregnant. Worse part was when my brother got out of the backseat of the Truck. He knew all along. Years later. Different relationship. I found out from my ex best friend that he cheated and all our mutual friends knew but me. She only told me because she was divorcing her husband and wanted to have a friend in her time of need that was going through the same issues she was. This is why I don’t have very many friends.
77. Came home from graduate school. Behavior was strange. Found pics on a 35mm camera, as well as a hair brush, with long hair, in a car I had only been in once since coming home.
78. She came to my work and made a scene.
79. He became very secretive with his phone and put a lock code on it. He was very forgetful so I just watched for a couple days. His pass code was 1234. He left his phone on the table one day when he went to sleep. I was already suspicious. There were pictures of them kissing and raunchy text message. I told him to end it. He said he would. I feigned illness at work and went home early. The deadbolt was locked. After I sounded on the door I found him in his underwear with the fire on and my white mini blanket on the floor, A very romantic ambiance. I screamed a demanded to know who. I found her Raybans then I knew who. I smashed them on the kitchen floor. I took a leave of absence at my job and bought a one way ticket home.
80. At his funeral I found out he was married. The widow and I wore the same dress hers was black mine was blue.
81. Looked up a recipie on his laptop where his pof account tab open. I was dealing with an ectopic pregnancy at the time. Best time ever.
82. Came home to a dude in my house. Got mad, fight ensued, she called the cops telling them her ex was fighting with her new boyfriend.. I was pretty heartbroken. Never again