Psychology divides love into six types.
1. EROS:-
This name is given to love that is aroused by physical feelings and is inclined to eroticism.Lovers who are inclined to pleasure fall in love at first sight.This is because they are fascinated by each other’s smiles or gestures.They kiss and hug each other to experiment. They are also more inclined to receive affection than to love and are always looking for new partners or companions. They find new lovers and girlfriends every day.
2. LUDUS
This name is given to those who enjoy telling others that they have a girlfriend or boyfriend, who like to go on vacation, watch movies, play games, and joke with their girlfriend or boyfriend. They do not intend to end their love affair with marriage or to get married.These people only want to act like actors and actresses who dance around trees, sing songs, write letters and poems until their work is done.As soon as their need is fulfilled, they run away. They decide that their mentality is right by making it an excuse to have a good relationship and then get married.
3 .STORGE
This love blossoms and bears fruit in the company of close friends. Here, a very caring attitude, respectful and respectful emotions, and shared values and actions can be seen.They expect and focus on building a cooperative relationship rather than arousing lust.
4. MANIA
This name is used to describe those who are crazy about love. These people with a violent mentality also have a disturbed mental level.For them, love is a mental problem if there is no love. They are extremely jealous of their boyfriend or girlfriend. They see the slightest mistake as a betrayal of love. These people, who are provoked by this, are even tempted to commit crimes. Lovers kill their girlfriends blatantly and later regret their inhuman actions. Some are happy..
5. Pragma. (PRAGMA)
This is a practical and realistic love. They deliberately avoid being idle. They choose their future spouse very calmly by looking at the good and bad in terms of practicality and value.If there is no problem in terms of matchmaking, religion, caste, etc., they marry only to make love blossom. These people are the basis for arranged marriages.Even though it is monotonous and not very enjoyable, there is only a good basis for maintaining long-term relationships.This is because they deceive their minds into thinking that it is a destined marriage.
6. Agape. (AGAPE)
This is the highest state of love that takes them to a higher, transcendental level, free from desires and physical ego. A woman who takes care of her elderly parents and a disabled child with dedication reflects this nature.Here, love is a spiritual, one-sided, non-selfish love. Sometimes, we see men and women who live happily with a drunkard, ignorant and low-quality husband or a bad wife who does not belong to their race, caste or tribe. They are of this type. They are people who have real and true love who sacrifice their happiness and life to please others and help others.The quote is based on the book Yuga Divi Atwela for Married and Unmarried People to Enjoy Happiness. Katrrru Sumanadasa Samarasinghe Shureen.Chitta Dharma Vidya Science of mind
Small trees do not grow under big trees… The meaning of this is not the second story told by this child… It is like this.. Usually, if the fruits of big trees with their branches spread out and fall to the ground and sprout under those trees, those plants can never grow taller than the big tree…It means that if parents have a name in some field, their children cannot surpass that name. That will not happen… it will not happen.. Therefore, if small trees want to grow big, they have to go to another place. They can grow big by themselves by sprouting in a new place… If you open your eyes a little and look around, you can see many examples all over the world.That is why it is said that small trees do not grow under big trees.
3. Life is very short……
🕊1. Have intimacy as much as possible. If you don’t like it, don’t teach modesty to those who do.
2. If you don’t like it, don’t eat meat. Don’t eat the meat of those who do.
3. If you don’t like it, don’t wear shorts. Don’t tease those who wear them.
4. If you don’t like it, don’t love it. Don’t take off the clothes of those you love.
5. If you like it, get married. If you don’t like it, let them be free.
6. If you like it, have children. Don’t disturb the minds of those who don’t like it and don’t have children.
7. If you don’t like it, don’t be fashionable. Let them have whatever they want.
8. If you don’t like it, don’t drink alcohol or cigarettes. Don’t eat the four types of food they like.
9. If you don’t like it, don’t walk holding the hand of the person you love. Don’t remember the parents of the person you’re going with.
10. If you like it, wrap yourself in a cloth and jump into the sea or a swimming pool.
Don’t look for the length and width of the thread in the swimsuit.
11. If you don’t like it, don’t live life happily and lightly. Don’t give knives, axes, or hoes to those who like it.
12. Follow a religion you like. Don’t impose religion on those who don’t.
13. If you like it, read and write poems and short stories. If you don’t like it, don’t read them and avoid them.
14. If you like it, be a serious character. Don’t kill characters who are having fun lightly.
15. If you like it, love. If you don’t like it, don’t criticize those who do.
16. Let those who are having fun alone..That’s all!!!
4. We all have days when life flows like crazy,but as we grow older, the friends we used to get together every evening may no longer exist,everyone who didn’t even know what questions were,today is probably looking for answers to some questions,yes, that’s what life is all about.
🥹When friends all got together and went down the drain,we all couldn’t do the same thing today,because many of them went down roads they didn’t even think of,and they stopped in places they didn’t even think of,yes, that’s what life is all about.
🥹The friends who are talking to each other today,maybe we won’t even see them for many more years It will be..In about twenty or twenty-five years, we will all have gone far in life.By then, even the images of them that we have known since childhood will have changed a lot
But the love will always be the same…So this life is a journey that stops when we run and run,Collect beautiful memories as much as possible until we fall,In the end, that’s all we have left…❤️🥹-